Self-Pleasuring Coaching

It is a chance to learn all the things they never told you in school about our bodies, our sexual energy, our genitals - what are they made of and what do they do, how can we have fulfilling self pleasuring, how can we have more orgasms in our whole bodies not just our genitals, why is is sometimes hard to self pleasure without fantasy, what are the consequences of pornography and our sex lives today, how do genitals really like to be touched, how can I touch myself and lovers differently to allow more pleasure and connection, why do many of us still feel


disconnected from our bodies, why do many of us still feel shame around sex and self pleasuring ?

Sessions are about information, learning, letting go of inhibitions, finding out you are not alone in your confusion and struggles with your body and sex, questions and answers session, lots of new skills to take home and practice Self Pleasuring. 

This is an Invitation to

  • Learn how to feel more sensual and sexual pleasure in your body and in your life

  • A greater understanding of how to stay present in self pleasuring & love making

  • Learn how to spread sexual and orgasmic around your entire body

  • Understand your genital anatomy more? How it works, what is there?

  • Learn different ways of massaging your genitals 

  • Experience deeply satisfying self pleasuring free of boredom or shame?

Why self pleasuring?


We are naturally ecstatic open and expansive being, sadly for many of us we have become accustomed to being dependent on others to experience sexual pleasure. This is not an empowered way to be as a sexual being in this world, it can lead to sometimes poor choices around partners, neediness and lack of self confidence. Often we can make unspoken agreements with others that they are somehow responsible for our peace, pleasure, fulfillment and wholeness and that we are responsible for theirs in return. Any other way of celebrating our unique, sexual, potent and perfect being is veiled with guilt and shame. By changing our belief system that we are whole, and that love, joy and fulfillment is all to be found within each of us, we create a healthy foundation of self esteem, confidence and worthiness. Owning and mastering your sexual energy and power is a way to take responsibility for your own life and pleasure, and thrive as a human being, rather than feeling dependent on someone else. The primary focus of OYP is to assist you to access ecstatic, transformational states through erotic self touch.

What are the benefits of self pleasuring?


To feel & to re-connect to your body as a source of wisdom, happiness and freedom. It creates self empowerment & independence, weaves/connects the heart & the genitals, frees us of the need for fantasy & imagery for arousal & helps us to breaks old pattern, so that we can feel and allow more pleasure and orgasmic energy in our bodies.


Change the way you masturbate - change your life!